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Bibliotherapy is a therapeutic approach using books and other forms of literature (typically alongside more traditional therapy modalities), to support our mental health.
Though the books recommended by therapists can encompass any genre or theme—from philosophy to memoir to self-help—bibliotherapists typically make use of fiction.
These books here have been personally vetted and recommended by our team.
Check out our lists of covering the best books for anxiety, ADHD, personal growth and development, understanding the effects of childhood trauma or depression on our adult lives.
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Setting Boundaries That Stick: How Neurobiology Can Help You Rewire Your Brain to Feel Safe, Connected, and Empowered
By Juliane Taylor Shore LMFT LPC SEP
For anyone

Our New World of Adult Bullies: How to Spot Them ― How to Stop Them
by Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq.
Personal Growth | Women's Health

Why Won't You Apologize? Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts
by Harriet Lerner PhD

The Untethered soul: the journey beyond yourself
by Michael Singer

Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide To Reclaiming Yourself
by Nedra Glover Tawwab
- Untamed. By Glennon Doyle
- Now, Discover Your Strengths by Marcus Buckingham; Donald O. Clifton
- Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone By Brene Brown, PhD.
- The Gifts of Imperfection: Let go of who you think you are supposed to be and embrace who you are. By Brene Brown, PhD.
- Daring Greatly: How the courage to be vulnerable transforms the way we live, love, parent and lead. By Brene Brown, PhD.
Women’s Health:
- The Baby Decision: How to Make The Most Important Choice of Your Life, by Merle Bombardieri MSW LICSW.
Moody Bitches: The truth about the drugs your taking, the sleep you’re missing, the sex you’re not having and whats really making you crazy by Julie Holland, MD. - The Vagina Bible: The Vulva and the Vagina – Separating the Myth from the Medicine by Dr. Jen Gunter MD
- The Menopause Manifesto: Own Your Health with Facts and Feminism by Dr. Jen Gunter MD
Anxiety | Depression | Stress Management

Feeling Better: Beat Depression and Improve your Relationships with Interpersonal Psychotherapy
by Cindy Goodman Stulberg, CPsych & Ronald Frey, Ph, D. CPsych

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle
by Emily Nagoski PhD, Amelia Nagoski DMA

Unplug: A Simple Guide to Meditation for Busy Skeptics and Modern Soul Seekers
by Suze Yalof Schwartz
- We Are All Perfectly Fine: A Memoir of Love, Medicine and Healing by Dr. Jillian Horton
- The Noonday Demon: an Atlas of Depression by Andrew Solomon
- First, We Make the Beast Beautiful: A new Journey Through Anxiety by Sarah Wilson
- Mind over mood: Change how you feel by changing the way you think by Dennis Greenberger, PhD., Christine A. Padesky, PhD.
Recovery from trauma | childhood neglect or abuse | substance use recovery
- Building a Life Worth Living: A Memoir by Marsha M. Linehan
- Getting Past Your Past: Take Control of Your Life with Self-Help Techniques from EMDR Therapy by Francine Shapiro
- The Drama of the Gifted Child: the search for true self. by Alice Miller
- In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: close encounters with addiction by Dr. Gabor Mate
Couples | Romantic relationships

The All-or-Nothing Marriage: How the best marriages work
by Eli Finkel

Loving Bravely: 20 Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want
by Alexandra Solomon, PhD
- Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, by Terrence Real, foreword by Bruce Springsteen
- Eight Dates: Essential conversations for a lifetime of love, by John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Doug Abrams, Rachel Carlton Abrams
- The Fair Play Deck: A Couple’s Conversation Deck for Prioritizing What’s Important by Eve Rodsky.
- Hold Me Tight: Seven conversations for a lifetime of love by Sue Johnson, PhD.
- The Seven principles for making marriage work by John Gottman, PhD.
- Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel, PhD.
- Keeping the Love You Find by Harville Hendrix Ph.D.
- The Couples Guide to Thriving with ADHD, by Melissa Orlov & Nancy Kohlenberger, LMFT
- ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, by Ari Tuckman
- The ADHD Effect on Marriage: Understand and Rebuild Your Relationship in Six Steps. by Melissa Orlov
Parenting

The Conscious parent: transforming ourselves, empowering our children
by Shefali Tsabry, PhD

Raising Antiracist Children: A Practical Parenting Guide
by Britt Hawthorne, Natasha Yglesias

Stepfamilies: Love, parenting and marriage in the first decade
by James Bray, PhD
- The Awakened family: A revolution in parenting by Shefali Tsabry, PhD.
- Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child. by John Gottman Ph.D., Daniel Goleman (Foreword), Joan Declaire.
- The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind.
by Daniel J. Siegel, Tina Payne Bryson - Better Dads: How to Communicate and Connect with your Kid, Reduce Conflict, and Have a Happier Family by John Foulkes
- Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can Raise Happy and Secure Kids by Christina McGhee
- Far from the tree: parents, children and the search for identity by Andrew Solomon
For kids:
- Two Homes by Claire Masurel
- What to do when your temper flares: A Kid’s Guide by Dawn Huebner, PhD.
- What to do when you worry too much: A Kid’s Guide by Dawn Huebner, PhD.
- (Grief or separation/younger kids) The Invisible string by Patrice Karst
- When Dinosaurs Die: A Guide to Understanding Death by Laurie Krasny Brown
Essential ADHD books for Parents

12 Principles for Raising a Child with ADHD
by Russell A Barkley PhD

Taking Charge of ADHD: The Complete, Authoritative Guide for Parents
by Russell A Barkley PhD
- Attention Difference Disorder: How to Turn Your ADHD Child or Teen’s Differences into Strengths in 7 Simple Steps by Dr. Kenny Handelman
- ADHD 2.0: New Science and Essential Strategies for Thriving with Distraction–from Childhood through Adulthood. by Edward M. Hallowell M.D. John J. Ratey M.D.
- Smart but Scattered Teens: The “Executive Skills” Program for Helping Teens Reach Their Potential. by Richard Guare, Peg Dawson, Colin Guare
- Smart but Scattered: The Revolutionary “Executive Skills” Approach to Helping Kids Reach Their Potential by Peg Dawson, PhD and Richard Guare, PhD.
ADHD (or AuDHD/Autism) books for Adults

The Autistic Burnout Workbook
by Dr. Megan Anna Neff

Take back your calendar: Time mastery for the time-challenged, V2.
by Christina Crowe, RP

The Pattern Seekers: How Autism Drives Human Invention
by Simon Baron-Cohen

Navigating ADHD Care: A Practical Guide for Adults
by Professor Stephen V. Faraone, PhD
- Tiny Changes, Remarkable Results: Atomic Habits, an easy and proven way to build good habits and break bad ones By James Clear
- Self-Care for Autistic People: 100+ Ways to Recharge, De-Stress, and Unmask! by Dr. Megan Anna Neff
- Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity, by Devon Price PhD.
- ADHD: A Hunter in a Farmer’s World by Thom Hartmann
- Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown
- The Mindfulness Prescription for Adult ADHD: An 8-Step Program for Strengthening Attention, Managing Emotions, and Achieving Your Goals. by Lidia Zylowska, Daniel Siegel
- Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience. By: Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
Work Life | Leadership
- Burn Rate: Launching a Startup and Losing My Mind by Andy Dunn
- WOLFPACK: How to Come Together, Unleash Our Power, and Change the Game, by Abby Wambach
- Getting to Yes: negotiating agreement without giving in By Roger Fisher and William Ury
- Dare to Lead: Brave work, tough conversations, whole hearts. By Brene Brown, PhD.
- Nine Lies About Work: A Freethinking Leaders Guide to the Real World by Ashley Goodall and Marcus Buckingham
- Radical Candor: Be a Kick-ass boss without losing your humanity by Kim Scott
- Leaders Eat Last: Why some teams pull together and others don’t by Simon Sinek
Beautiful stories about complicated families

Because I Come From a Crazy Family
by Dr. Ed Hallowell

Love Lives Here: A Story of Thriving in a Transgender Family
by Amanda Jette Knox

The Great Santini
by Pat Conro

The Art of Hearing Heartbeats
by Jan-Philipp Sendker
- To Shake the Sleeping Self: A Journey from Oregon to Patagonia, and a Quest for a Life with No Regret by Jedidiah Jenkins
- The Prince of Tides by Pat Conroy
- South of Broad by Pat Conroy
- Beach Music by Pat Conroy
- The Great Alone By Kristin Hannah
- Franny and Zooey by J.D. Salinger
- The Rent Collector by Camron Wright
- Educated by Tara Westover
- The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls
- The Corrections by Jonathan Franzen
For the philosophers

Hiking with Nietzsche: On Becoming Who You Are
by John Kaag

The Schopenhauer Cure: A Novel
by Irvin Yalom

The Four Quartets
by T.S. Eliot
- When Nietzsche Wept: A Novel of Obsession by Irvin Yalom
- The Fall by Albert Camus
- Reflections on the Art of Living by Joseph Campbell
- The Second Sex by Simone De Beauvoir
- Ain’t I a Woman: Black Women and Feminism, 2nd Edition, by bell hooks.
- Man’s search for meaning by Viktor Frankl
- Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke
Essential reading for therapists
- Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma, by Peter A. Levine
- Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself (Revised and Updated) by Melody Beattie
- Feeling Better: Beat Depression and Improve Your Relationships with Interpersonal Psychotherapy by Cindy Goodman Stulberg DCS CPsych , Ronald J. Frey PhD CPsych
- The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression, by Andrew Solomon
- Building a Life Worth Living: A Memoir by Marsha M. Linehan
- Reflections on the Art of Living by Joseph Campbell
- The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self by Alice Miller
- Man’s search for meaning by Viktor Frankl
- Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke
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